In this post, I want to cover why and how I am going to change my life. My life is great in places and dire in others. I’m going to change the bad things, improve the good things and cut the fat.
My past choices and current actions have led me to where I am in my life and if I’m not careful will define me. On my current trajectory, I believe that my future life with look like this:
- Living pay cheque to pay cheque.
- Constant stress and pressure.
- Lack of purpose.
- Lack of time.
- Failing relationships.
Obviously, it doesn’t sound great and if someone gave you a choice to live that future or a better, more prosperous future, I’d bet you pick the latter. Which is why things need to change.
I’m having to reframe my mindset, not necessarily into a more positive one (I like to think I’m fairly positive already) but into a more future me mindset. I’ll touch on this more in another post but a brief summary below:
My actions need to be driven from my future life and not my present life trying to define my future. I have a goal to earn £3k per month, net income into my bank. The present mindset is to try and earn that money from where I currently am. The future mindset is change my circumstances to get there, to cut the fat.
A simple example – I spent 1 hour and 33 minutes yesterday doing nothing useful. Just scrolling and randomly checking emails, making a cup of tea and just floating around with no purpose. I could have earned £15 driving for deliveroo in that time or £15 training AI. It’s not much but it’s a start.
So how do I change my life driven by the future me?
The first thing is to set my future goals, I have 10 goals for the future (3 years from now). I’ve split them into 90 days chunks which I call “seasons”. I have 12 seasons to achieve my goals. My goals are lofty and on paper from where I am now, unachievable and almost laughable but to me that’s a good thing. By splitting them into 90 day seasons and much smaller objectives, it becomes more achievable and more appealing. My 10X 3 year goals can be found Here. On that page you can find links to each of my 90 day seasons as they are uploaded but I want to leave you with one goal as an example.
Earn £20k a month net income. Hahaha. For context, I’m lucky if I get £1800 a month net. So as you can see unachievable, laughable, unrealistic. Or is it? My first 90 day season is to earn £3k per month net. I’m already over halfway there. £1200 to go.
I can break it down in so many different ways to get to that figure.
- Earn £100 a day overall
- Earn £40 a day extra
- Sell things on eBay/vinted
- Deliveroo/Uber Eats
- Second job
- Ask for a pay raise
- Opt out of workplace pension (£15 per week) please don’t do this.
- Train AI
- Surveys
- Matched Betting
So on and so forth, the point is that there are loads of ways to earn a bit more, just a bit of creativity and thinking outside the box.
The main differentiator for me will be trimming that fat, the 1 hour and 33 minutes yesterday doing nothing, needs to be converted into doing something productive.
7.5 hours a week (Monday to Friday) over 4 weeks is 30 hours. 30 hours at £15 an hour is £450 and that’s without optimising anything.